About YayOrNay
What is YayOrNay?
YayOrNay is a social discovery and matchmaking app built on the belief that there is more to a person than meets the eye. Finding people who truly share your values, interests and outlook can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. We use technology to improve those odds and help you discover meaningful connections for friendship, dating and real-life experiences.
Is YayOrNay only for dating?
No. You can look for dating, friendship or both. Tap in the bottom navigation to open the Account page, tap beside your profile photo, then use I'm looking for to choose friendship, dating or both.
Where can I find YayOrNay Settings?
Tap in the bottom navigation to open the Account page. Tap beside your profile photo to open Settings.
How does YayOrNay work?
Your answers are at the heart of YayOrNay. We use them to help you discover like-minded people, and answering more opens up more ways to use the app. You can learn more about yourself through your Personality Assessment, play trivia games with friends and family, try Cupid Mode, explore Experiences and use Crews to help your friend group find new groups to meet and hang out with.
What does Yay mean, and what does Nay mean?
Yay means yes. Nay means no. Choose the answer that fits you; there is no correct response.
Availability and eligibility
Is YayOrNay free?
Yes. YayOrNay is available to use for free. Some optional enhanced features and Experiences may require an additional payment.
Where can I download YayOrNay?
Download YayOrNay from the Apple App Store or Google Play. Use the official store links on yayornay.se.
Is every feature available everywhere?
No. Availability depends on your country, age and account. Update the app first. If a feature still does not appear, it is not available to you right now.
How old do I need to be to use YayOrNay?
You must be at least 13, or the higher minimum legal age for using social media in your country. Adult-only features require you to be at least 18.
Can someone under 18 use YayOrNay Experiences?
No. We do not allow anyone under 18, or under the higher age of majority where they live, to use Experiences or other adult-only features.
App language, updates and devices
How do I change the app language?
Tap in the bottom navigation to open the Account page. Tap beside your profile photo, then tap Language. Choose your preferred language from the available options and save your changes. Close and reopen YayOrNay if part of the interface still uses the previous language.
Why am I being asked to update the app?
We sometimes require an update to keep our app secure and working properly. Install the latest version from the App Store or Google Play.
Can I use YayOrNay in a web browser?
No. YayOrNay is currently available only through our official iOS app on the Apple App Store and our official Android app on Google Play. We do not currently support using YayOrNay in a web browser.
Can I use the same account on iPhone and Android?
Yes. Sign in with the same email address on either device. Some permissions and notification settings differ between iPhone and Android, so review and enable the required settings on each phone.
Do I need a phone number to join?
No. Sign in with your email address and a one-time code. If a feature needs extra verification, we'll explain what to do.
Profiles, travel and new features
Can I look around before finishing my profile?
No. You must complete the initial account setup before you can access YayOrNay. The setup screen shows which required details are still missing. Accounts that remain incomplete beyond the allowed completion period may be deleted.
What does beta or early access mean?
Beta or early access means the feature is still being tested and can change. Access is limited, and screens can differ from older screenshots or help articles.
Can I use YayOrNay while travelling?
Yes, if YayOrNay is available in the country you are visiting. Local laws, regulations, age requirements or service restrictions may limit some features or prevent us from offering YayOrNay there. When the service is available and location access is enabled, nearby results can update to your current area.
Where can I see what's new?
Check the App Store or Google Play release notes, in-app announcements and yayornay.se. New features can reach different accounts on different dates.
Still stuck after trying these answers?
For an account-specific issue that the Help Center and in-app feedback cannot solve.
Email Support